I never said to conceal the fact you wear a wig from your significant other. What I'm saying is that for guys who look worse without hair, they won't get their foot at the door of many girls. Once they got their foot at the door, they have a chance to show why their personality can compansate on the fact that the base of their hair is lace and not scalp.

I do agree that there is some kind of a problem here (hypocrisy). These guys without hair, could have gone with women who look worse and don't care about the hair, but these guys are superficial and are attracted to more beautiful women (they can't compromise on having good personality only and average looks, they want great looks too), and hence need the hair. After they get their foot at the door of the more beutiful women, they want their personality to make more difference on that woman than the fact that they wear hair, but they are asking her to do something they couldn't do themselves, and this is: not be superficial.

But then I guess, for a woman, dating a guy who looks good but wears hair, might be less of a bitter pill to swallow than for a guy to date a woman that looks bad period. The woman who doesn't want to continue a relationship with a good looking guy just because he wears hair, seems to be more superficial than the guy who can't date a woman because she doesn't attract him.