Hi French,
Go with the first template. That's the exact shape that you want for your hair system. The hair line meets your natural temple line. It's much better than the second template. I don't know why your prior supplier could not match that. I know there are companies out there that would just rather take the easy route and sell you a stock piece instead of doing a complete custom route and that must be the answer. But the first template you made is very good. It matches your existing hair while showing a bit of natural recession---that will be very realistic.
Regards,
John