Just curious about something.
I notice there are always a lot of questions about telling a prospective girl about wearing and there seem to be several different schools of thought. Some guys recommend just being up front and getting it out of the way,while others simply can't bring themselves to do that so easily or in fact, not at all. Some guys are worried about being intimate and I've heard guys come up with pretty out there statements and ideas about telling the girl about sensitive scalps or whatever to prevent a girl from running their hands through the unit. My question is how many guys would feel different about dating a woman who wore a full wig? I don't mean partials, which are fairly common for women, or small pieces to create a fuller look. I mean a woman who was completely bald and wore a full wig. I know there are women who post here and I'm not trying to make anyone uncomfortable, but I'm curious if it would be an issue with some of the dudes. Say especially if she wasn't up front about it and you discovered it one night while running your hands through HER hair or some similar situation. I'm reminded of the Seinfeld episode where George, who was wearing a piece discovered that a blind date was bald. His reaction wasn't pleasant or positive. Years ago I met a stripper when I was in college and it was dark and late and we'd all been drinking and this lovely girl with long, flowing hair caught my eye and somehow we ended up having an intense, conversation and we connected quite well. She was staying in a local hotel that weekend and we made plans to go to a local mall the next day and when I showed up, her roomate let me in and when I opened the door to the girl's room, she let out a shriek and there on a styrofoam head was her flaming read hair from the night before.
The poor girl turned out to suffer from a form of alopecia and wore several wigs on a regular basis. I hate to admit it, but I thought about it the whole time and while she was attractive, it kinda killed the whole mood and my attraction to her wasn't as intense as it had been before I found out about her wig. She had kind of a punk look to her and actually could have pulled off the bald look if she had wanted to. She just didn't have the nerve or whatever to do so. I hate to admit that it was an issue. I don't know if it would be at this point in my life. I'm in my late 20's now and not nearly as shallow as I was then. I was also not receding as I am now. Sorry for the epic, but It's just something that I've been thinking about the last few days. Would this bother many/any of you guys?
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