I can tell you from a woman's perspective. If she really loves you then she will get use to it. I even order my husband's units and found him a hair stylist. He uses tape so that sucker comes off the moment we get home. I don't mind him going around with the old horse shoe at home, but I really like to see him with hair when we are out. I know how much he hates being bald and thank goodness we found Toplace to help him out with that. I can honestly say I get so use to seeing him with hair when we are out I forget it is not real (well, except the latest unit, which I hate, but that is another post). If a guy can get use to a woman without her make up and in sweats then a woman should be able to handle when he is in laid back mode. Hope that helps.