emery Wrote:supposed you let your gf knows that you are wearing, and suppose they seems to have accepted... but ask if you can show her your bald head, what do you do ?

I personally think this is embarassing and don't think it can be shown. Even if you are marrying the girl.

I have started wearing in the middle of dating my last gf... and since i was in control of the relationship she was pretty OK with it... but after I showed her my bald head she seems to have distanced herself a bit from me... and said she couldnt sleep for a few nights etc etc

Anybody have experience showing your bald head to a girlfriend and regretted you have shown her? just curious

Your question troubles me for two reasons
1. You may have shared the deepest intimacy with this grirl with no regard to your nakedness
2. You appear to be ashamed of being bald.

Being bald is normal in some manner for 4 of 5 guys.Only ONE out of five men keep ALL of their hair..(many of them look wiggy because of their age.) Take a look around. Most of them are not ashamed of it. Moat of them have no need to cover it up. regardless how bad we think they look they beg to differ. The proof is their reluctance to hide it. I am not one of those people who carries around "this shameful little secret" I am actually proud of how real the hair look and enjoy the look on people's faces when I out myself IF the subject comes up. In every single instance they would not have know and rarely if ever bring it up again.

For me it was more worrisome to deal with the possibility of something really amiss and having no control of the when or where someone may out me. Every girlfriend I had from 23 to my current wife in the past 15 years knew I wore and at one time or another saw me without it. No one left. YEah they laughed. How could they not. One asked me not to wear it, she would rather I be bald then have someone else "biology" with us in our intimate moments LOL When you think about that it makes sense. These are biological units that one belonged and grew out of some else's head!!!

IN any case wear because YOU choose to. But man especially if you are married sometimes you need a break. I am grateful I have never met nor am married to someone who thinks an iota different of me with or without my wig.

I ride a motorcycle everyday with a full thin skin cap and I use Nexgen glue on th front and "Got to be Glued". Do the math when the glue gets old and the hair stays in the helmet..LOL IT has happened twice and I carry a ball cap in my bags because the little rim of hair around my nape WOULD look kinda inordinate in public. But I have let my own hair grow back under the cap so I don't have to worry about that anymore and I can go to the beach without the unit and look like every other bald guy there.

For God Sakes don't be ashamed of being bald. Be glad you can make yourself look better,younger or whatever. Shame should not be part of the equation. It breeds a lack of confidence and that's not attractive. A normal woman would rather date a confident bald man then a shameful and fear filled man with fake hair.

When people know you take the fear away of being outed. I can easily explain to anyone why I wear my hair if they ask. I either start to peel it back which does gross them out or show them a picture of my without it I carry around. They "get it" some still think its wierd but I cannot stress about that. Since I have been wearing a full cap I am far less paranoid bout matching since these things oxidize quickly.