i have been with my girl 17 year's, of course she knows that i wear a piece, and understands when i need (private) time to do what we have to do. but still she has never seen me without the thing on my head, it still is embarresing, we are both in our 50's so maybe when we are in our 70's i will feel compfortable enough to (go natural) in front of her :lol: guyc