Thanks to all for the advice, it's very much appreciated. I have tried using I glue but find that it just doesn't hold for me in the nape area, is there a stronger alternative in a white glue that I could try that may be not quite as harsh as UH?

Thanks Debbie, I didn't even think about that but it makes so much sense. I will try to possibly shave the night before and then attach the next day so that it gives the area a chance to calm down before I apply glue.

Thanks to all.