Well you can change up the style and the length of hair you use to blend. Thats one option, Another option is to lower the density of the system on the perimeter to blend into your thinning hair more, Or use a concealer product on your own hair such as dermmatch or prothick to thicken up the hair and create more density. U could try either one of these methods or in combination. I would try to avoid getting too high of a density on the unit because that will make blending a little more difficult. Some use a curtain style hair style, or having the hair longer to over lap the side hairs not to worry about blending.. Others simply wear full caps or oversized pieces and shave off their side hair, U just have to try a few options and experiment and find what works the best for you.