I do not know why some guys are so eager to rush and tell the girl. Why not bite your time a little bit. I mean if your very open about it, and do not care if people know, than that is one thing. But if you are very secretive over it, and you usually do not want anyone to know, You do not need to tell people immediately. Its like we are treating it as if we have a disease that we must tell people right away so they have a decision to accept us. Guys go bald big deal. Millions of men. If you wait till a girl truly cares about you, you wearing a system will most likely not mean much to her.