Hi guys

I'm ready to order now. But need some help.
I'm want to get something like the styles below (sorry I'm not sure how to attach the picture directly).

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What specs should I state when ordering? density, wave, etc. And hope tman30 does not mind me using a pic of his. I think I will do a comb down style like him so that I won't expose the hairline.
Should I go for french lace? I play basketball often so hopefully I can get something that allows me to continue with my hobby, though I'm willing to give it up if needed.

Also, what products do I need to order together with the hair? Conditioners, shampoo, glues etc. I stay in Singapore now, so I would like to have the whole set ready as it will take awhile to arrive if I order later. My hair is black, though not jet black, so I may have to dye the hair to blend in with my hair. (I once saw someone with jetblack hair on top while his sides were not as black, so I don't want to have the same situation ) So hope someone experienced can recommend a list of products to buy for my situation.

Lastly, I went to a hair replacement salon in Singapore once, but the piece they gave me was horrible, too thick n with a skin front with no hairline. I immediately rejected it and had to live with a shaved head for the next few months. However, we parted on good terms. So I was wondering if I should go there for my cut-in or can I go to my usual stylist? and if so, do I need to give her any special instructions? Or is there anyone toplace works with in Singapore?

Sorry for the long post, its quite a major decision for me to go with wearing. I posted sometime before asking if I should wear and you all adviced me not to. But I think the pictures were not accurate and I can feel the front thinning more n more with the hairline receding too, so I guess I better have a spare ready when it gets too thin to bear.