matthewmatthews Wrote:Ha, that sounds like a good place to be. Unfortunately at this stage of being shaved clean, I AM afraid to leave my house. It's a shame. It's amazing how defeating this feeling is. I used to be hyper confident. Now I don't know where you summon that sort of confidence from. It's lame, but I think most of my confidence was derived from the way I used to look, and the positive reaction of the fairer sex. Now I'm so deeply rooted in that, it seems impossible to draw confidence from anywhere else.

Dude, think of the ugly guys out there with hot girls! They learn't along time ago, if they were going to get laid...they had to improve themselves in other ways.

Apart from teenie girls, most WOMEN aren't into looks as much as guys think. Sure its one of the things thats important, but being confident...in other words, having balls! wearing hair takes balls...it shows that you won't settle and have pride in yourself.