You guys need to lay back a bit. I've seen this a few times on this board, and I don't think it's helpful, or in any way true, to suggest that just because he has genuine concerns or fears about wearing that he's not psychologically a candidate.

I was told the same thing last time I was posting on this board about my experience with a Virtual Reality (shitty thinskin) piece, and I was convinced by a few of you that I was not suited for wearing psychologically. The reality is that I was truly unhappy with my piece, and had I been educated about the various differences in options and undetectability, I would have continued to experiment until I found something that worked.

Everyone is going to have an adjustment period, but to suggest that just because the idea of being detected makes a potential wearer anxious, doesn't mean that that person is "completely", "totally" or "without a shadow of a doubt" not going to be able to pull it off, get used to it, and improve their lives because of it.

I'm not trying to be negative or anything as you both give great advice on this board. I'm just saying it would be nice to see more support and encouragement to potential wearers, and less cynicism.