[quote="musclebuzz"]Personally, I'd feel much more comfortable with the "Don Draper" look rather than attempting to sport an "Emo Cut."
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As in politics, the misconception is to think the polar extremes are the only points of view. Modern, conservative cuts are far from the 'Emo Kid' stuff that you're trying to avoid.
Since you take the need to blend out of the equation, you can have any hairstyle you want ( no buzz/crew cuts of course) with a full cap.
Good luck