Ok ...to answer some of your questions briefly [many of them have been covered before, so just browse through the forum--if you click on any user-name, you`ll find links to all their threads/replies].
1: You can essentially have any style you wish..bear in mind some styles are less forgiving than others when wearing [exposed / non-exposed hairlines etc] The video is moving too fast for me to be able to see which styles you like...there are sites showing men`s hairstyles..just browse them and enclose photo/s of your preferred-style with your order.
2: Swiss lace may be a little less able to take the ` stress` of frequent de/re attachments...I use French lace and it`s more robust and practically as ` light` as Swiss.
3:Good attitude.
4:Fullcap systems have to be custom-made to your specifications and Template [your individual head-size/shape] ..Toplace do not carry ` stock` Fullcap systems for that reason.
5roducts [ I could write a book ] ---have been covered here many times...guys have their own particular favourites.... waxes can he hard to get out of system hair, requiring strong removal products..these can badly -impact both the colour and serviceable life of any system.... many off-the -shelf products are harsh on system -hair.... best to use system-specific styling products... there are many on-line suppliers ...just do Google searches.... Hair Direct carry a huge range.
6:Frequent washing will oxidise / ` lift` colour and lead to dryness/ brittleness /shedding.....best not to wash too often if possible .....use a daily leave-in conditioner / mist hair with water.
7:I get around 12 -20 weeks from mine because I treat them gently....bear in mind a Fullcap is twice the price of a topper..you don`t want / need to replace it in such a short space of time.
8: You only need bleached knots on the visible areas such as the front hairline and crown-point.
Have a look at my newest thread---shows new system ..hair-length is 4 inches on that and still half of it ends up on the salon floor...no need to order 6 inches of hair unless you want a long hairstyle...you`ll only make ` work` for a stylist and cost you more.
I can`t comment on suppliers /stores in your area... best to make a template and send it in for a custom-made order...allow 8 -10 weeks for a first-time Fullcap order ...subsequent orders will be faster as your template is to hand in the factory and order can be activated by a simple e-mail from John.
Hope that helps.