Welcome to the club.You`ll be tipping and tapping at the hair for a while now and won`t be able to pass a mirror or shop window,trust me ! All new systems look wiggy and have `bounce`..it`ll settle after a while and after washing. Use a little Brylcreem to help retain moisture and `tame`it a bit.... use it sparingly or you`ll defeat the purpose and look like a grease ball....as the system is new, just use some on the tips ....spread it onto hands/fingers and just `pull`[gently] little tufts of hair..that will help style it and gives a nice overall look....mist it with water too.. I often mist mine more than once a day....happy wearing !